This is what I learned in Family Constellations. When you enter the field, you are finally willing to stop the fight and be in the moment as it is. The moment of Love, the moment of presence that will never go back to the same shape but for sure will give birth to more. 

Basically, we all go through those three different cycles, multiple times in our life, but we should never stay stuck in any of them. Sometimes, it’s time to create. Sometimes, it’s time to preserve. And, sometimes it’s time to destroy. Those three cycles are all useful and needed in order to become who we want to be, in order to learn what we have to learn, so that we can expand and keep growing. 

It’s interesting, how at the end of our life, in front of death we can resist it. We have the tendency to blame Life but when it’s time to say Good-Bye, we actually think it’s too soon. I also have the example with my father who survived Death knocking at his door three times. It's interesting to me since my dad has wanted to die since he was 20. That relationship with death is ambivalent.

When a woman is pregnant, she is pregnant with three generations. So your grandmother, me and you are already connected. And, I have eggs. I was born with all of them, which is something new I recently learned. You are already a defined and divine number and your destiny will take care of the rest. Will we ever meet?

When you don’t know What to do Where to go  Who to be What’s your next move  Surrender 

In every constellation, the mother has an important place. She is the one literally giving life to the future generations. The mother has that first intra utero bond and then continues to be an unbreakable rock and foundation within the family system. It is through this important relationship that you give birth to your relationship with abundance, receiving, safety, and love.